Last week Jackie and I went up and put a tree in his room. Jackie made him the home cooked meal he’s been asking for. This year I am planning on going and spending the night with him on Christmas Eve.
The reason I am posting this on here is to ask anyone that reads this to go and see my dad on Christmas. I think it is a little messed up that before my dad got sick he would do anything for anyone and he seemed to have so many friends, but where is everyone now? Everytime I go and see my dad I check the sign in sheet and no one is on there to see him except the last time me and Jackie went up there. So now that he can’t go and help you do anything you can’t even bother to go and see him? Even if your busy you can atleast pick up the phone and call him. I see all these comments on here about how special he is and how many people love him, and yet, still no one comes to see how he’s doing? He’s not going to complain, but I know my dad, and I know it hurts him. If you can’t go and see him, atleast pick up the phone and call him. His number is the same. I’m not sure how many people still go on this site, but if you do, please don’t ignore this.
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i just want u to know i have went up to see ur dad and wish i could get the time to go up there more but i have kids and its hard 4 me make it up there and i have never have put my name down when i went to see him your dad is a HELL of a man and anything i can do to help let me know 4sure i will do my best thanks jw
Thank you jw i have talked to you and i kno but you did go to see him so thanks for acknowledging this site! I can fully agree with my sister because her and i say the same things to eachother all the time granet she said it in a nicer way but i think its fucked up that you were all there when he could help you but when he needs us noone is to be found. Christmas is in three days and only a few of you can be here for him. It’s bad enough that hes in a home for the holidays but for him to be alone is even worse i know its hard but thats no excuse because if anyone knows how hard it is it’s us girls and we see him more than anyone and having to watch him go through this is even harder but we deal with it cuz we love him and appreciate him for the great life he has given us and i know he hates the fact that he cant do christmas like we used to together and the other simple damn thing is it bothers him that he cant go out and help someone instead of getting help so no more excuses get off your ass and go see him b/c this is bullshit. it has been said by what used to be important people in his life that he wanted no visitors well thats not true and slowly but surely people are finding that out it was probably said so the underlying reality wasnt discovered well lets just say they arenot important anymore they showed me their true colors my dad is slowly but surely writing something to put on here it will be in dennys words so for the people that knew them thank you those of you that are not he has gotten worse and we dont know how much longer he will be able to talk to us and noone wants to think about how long we will have him but all im asking is that you go to see him while you can still talk to eachother cuz i dont kno what we will do then there are people my dad would like to thank one is Kier if it wasn’t for him this site wouldn’t exsist. to Kier and his family thank you for coming into my dads life. Bill Hays and the company he used to work for they made it possile for him to get on the internet they have been so good to my dad and the people that do come in i thank you
Jackie:
I was in Akron In August, and I most certainly stopped in to see Denny, It broke my heart when he said that he had very few visitors, Denny wanted me to go out and pick up some beers, and come back and drink them with him.
You don’t know how hard it was for me to see Denny in the shape that he was in, I loved him so much, and I’m really sorry to hear that he passed in May, I will never forgive myself for not getting back up there to see him before he died! I’ll not forgive Dee for turning her back on Denny, I never thought that she would be like that!
Please send me some photo’s of Denny, and of the funeral services.
I’m really sorry that I never kept in touch, but I tried to call several times, none of the phone numbers that I had were any good!
Denny Parsons was my best friend, and a true brother, and I pray that I get to see him again in Gods Kingdom,I know that he’s there, I just know if I’ll make the grade!
Denny Parsons
Friend and Brother
I will never forget you,
and I’m gonna expect you to keep
watch over me, ya know I need
all of the help that I can get
I Love You Denny
your brother, Steve Hughart