My intro to the world of Denny Parsons

Denny and SueI met Denny years ago, a man so full of life and hopes and dreams. His pride is his family, his 3 daughters Jessica, Jackie and Megan. Denny would help out anyone who would ask. Always there to lend a hand. The one thing that would always make his day would be to make you smile. I remember going to the store with him and he would go up to perfect strangers and make them laugh and smile. He loves to see people full of life and smiling and not worrying about all the little problems of the world going on around them. Over the years I have grown very close to him, he is my best friend. We have shared laughs and the tears. When he started saying something was wrong, he had pains in his hand and was having some trouble using it he finally went to the doctors. They ran him through all kinds of test, nerve test, X-rays, blood work etc. I got the phone call with what they thought he had, ALS Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease. Which at the time I really did not know what it was. I immediately went to research and my heart just sunk to the floor. You see, ALS is “a progressive neurodegenerative disease that affects nerve cells in the brain and the spinal cord. Motor neurons reach from the brain to the spinal cord and from the spinal cord to the muscles throughout the body. The progressive degeneration of the motor neurons in ALS eventually lead to their death. When the motor neurons die, the ability of the brain to initiate and control muscle movement is lost. With voluntary muscle action progressively affected, patients in the later stages of the disease may become totally paralyzed.” They also say they have 3 -5 years from diagnosis. My Denny was diagnosed August 2006. Denny and his girlfriend Diana came over to our house after one of the many visits to the doctors. Denny looked into my eyes and told me he did not want to see me cry. Do you know how hard that is? But I did it for him. I will be writting about his life with all the good and the bad. I want the world to be aware of this disease as it is not as wildly known about as some of the others you hear about. We need people to be aware of this and for them to find a cure.

15 Responses to “My intro to the world of Denny Parsons”

  1. ashley burns Says:

    ive known denny parsons now for about 5 years and his daughter jessica was the first friend that i had when i moved to akron. Denny was the most influential person that i knew at that point in my life and i thank God that i had the privilege to meet him. I will continue praying for his health and his family. I love everyone in the parsons family and i hope they know that as well.

  2. kellie Says:

    This is a very bad disease and I hope they find a cure for it. It shouldn’t be that hard considering the advancements in medicine they’re making now.

  3. Jackie Parsons Says:

    I want to thank Sue and Kier for doing this it means so much to us as well as my dad.

  4. Amy Cunningham Says:

    I met Denny about a year ago through Diana, Denny’s girfiriend. I have to say I dont think I have ever met another person who loves to laugh as much as Denny. Everytime I see him he is laughing, and making jokes so that everyone around him is laughing to. He brightens any room he enters. He is an amazing man to be going through all of this with a smile on his face. I also need to comment on Diana who has been with Denny every step of the way. She may not have ALS but she is there by his side fighting this disease everyday. she is a strong, wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with you Denny, Diana, and family

  5. Cindi O Says:

    I have known Denny for many many years. We met back in our “Wild years”. I was his 2nd wife’s best friend. Denny, when you read this, I want you to sit down and think back to those “Good ol days!” It is sure to bring a smile to your face! Remember a certain friend of yours walking through a certain establishment with toilet paper stuck to his shoes? LOL Oh man, we had sooooo many laughs. Like I have read over and over here……Denny loves to laugh and he loves to make people laugh. I can also agree with the comment that he would help anyone anytime! He was ALWAYS out in the garage working on something! LOL I haven’t seen Denny for a few years, but to see these pictures and to read about him, it just brings back all the memories.
    I have marked this as one of my favorite pages and I will keep in touch through the site on a weekly basis. Denny, I will pray for you as I have done since I learned about your terrible disease. I will pray for your beautiful daughters that they can enjoy being with you for as long as the lord will allow them to. I think this whole project is a wonderful way to contribute to people that want to and need to learn about this disease. Thank you for providing this.
    Love ya
    Cindi O

  6. Robbie Wilmoth Says:

    Ive only known denny very a little over a year but in that year he has helped me though so much nd i would like to say thank you to him

  7. Vince Says:

    Hey Denny ! I hope you get better .. Wishing the best for you ! I thank everyone who is doing this for you and it just seems unreal.. Well take it easy man and ill see you soon. Take it easy -Vince-

  8. Irene Says:

    I’ve know Denny since he came into my daughter, Diana’s life about 5 or 6 yrs ago. His daughter and my grandaughter were best friends. He is a wonderful, big-hearted guy that does not know a stranger. He had a great time riding around South Florida last January on his motorcycle along with my son Patrick. He even liked shooting the BS with the old guys down at the pool where I live , when he and Diana were here visiting, and they all liked him. You really can’t take him anywhere and be quiet – he is right out there talking to folks and laughing and getting them to laugh. He is an absolute inspiration, and when I wake up in the morning and feel like whining about my little aches and problems, I think of Denny who goes onwards and upwards as much as he can all the time. God bless him and my wonderful, strong daughter in their unimaginable struggles.

  9. Kevin Brundage Says:

    I met Denny a couple of years ago at a Fisticuff show. Diana’s brother Pat (who is the drummer for the band) introduced me to him. It was about a year ago when I learned of his fight with ALS. You have to admire Denny, dispite his struggle with ALS he manages to maintain his strong sense of humor. There is never a dull moment when Denny is around. Most people would give up on life but not Denny, he lives each day to it’s fullest. I want to say ” I am honored to have Denny as a friend.”
    God bless you my friend…

  10. Phyllis Rodgers Says:

    I met Denny from a good friend of mine named Sue. I had heard so much about him and finally our paths crossed. I know a lot about this disease because I had a aunt who passed away from this. I had never really knew much about this until he came down with it, and I then did some research myself. Denny is a wonderful person, always making you laugh. Hopefully someday they will find a cure for such a disease in the mean time all we can do is be there for him. Denny, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

    God Bless…

  11. Jessica Cuppett Says:

    I use to live down the street from Denny, I was good friends with his daughters. I was practically down at his house everyday all day. Denny is one of the most warm hearted people I know. And man can you cook some mean steaks whew!!!! :) I dont think words could describe how people feel about you. Your freakin awesome, You were always there for anyone that needed anything. I remember if we would do something or something happened that you werent happy about, instead of just being mad and yelling, you always mad us all sit down together and work it out. If there were more people in this world like you, it would be a much better place. Beleive that! We all love you very much Denny. Kepp fightin I know your a beast!!! :)

  12. Jessica Allen Says:

    I have known Denny for a very long time- even though we haven’t been in touch for awhile- he still made a big impact on my life. He taught me how important family is and that is demonstrated in the love he has for his daughters- it is unlike no other!

    He was there for me when I was pregnant and was there for the birth of my sons. He made sure my little boys had everything they needed when they were born.

    You are a very kind hearted person and damn good Dad! I have many great memories of you! Keep fighting!! I know you will!!!!

  13. Lisa Sheets Says:

    I have known Denny for many years, he was the step-father of my friend Jessica and a good neighbor. I would see Denny in the neighborhood with a smile on his face, he recently moved out of the neighborhood and i dont get to see that smile anymore, but i know he still wears it all the time, He would always have the hands to help anyone out. If i had the hood of my car up he would help me check the oil or put the oil in it, or what ever needed done at the time. Denny i know you are a good hearted strong man and you will fight this ALS with all you have. Keep fighting!! and if you ever need anything you know we are here. My thought and prayers are with you and your family always. I really admire your strength and courage! Thank you for being you and doing what you are doing, as you will and have made an impact on many lives. God Bless you!!!

  14. Patricia Johnson Says:

    Hi. Sorry to hear about the disese. I wanted to send this website (utube video) to you. I believe there is hope. http://youtube.com/watch?v=RNHmFRO9VJo I pray for you Denny, Love, your aunt Patty

  15. pjohnson252 Says:

    We are praying for you Denny.
    I love you!

    Love, you aunt Patty

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